When I asked him more targeted questions, a different picture emerged. He said: People come to me because they know I solve problems. I can simplify things, stay steady under pressure, and help people focus on solutions instead of panic. I understand the environment I work in and I know how to deal with it. That is not the same person as the one on the original CV.

One of the things mid-career professionals find hardest is talking about themselves without sounding like they are pitching. The key is to talk about contribution rather than credentials. Instead of leading with titles and tenure, try describing what you make possible. What do you help organisations do better? What do colleagues or clients tend to rely on you for? Where does your involvement change the outcome?