Three people asked me the same question in two weeks: if I set up on my own, what do I actually do? Before the practical steps, there is a prior decision most people rush past. Here is how to test whether self-employment genuinely fits you.

A useful advisor should be able to help you identify patterns, challenge assumptions, and turn reflection into practical action. They should also be comfortable dealing with complexity. Careers are rarely shaped by one factor alone. A role may be right on paper but wrong in practice because of team culture, poor communication, or a mismatch between your strengths and the way success is measured.