The fix here is less about communication style and more about discipline. Effective teams make expectations visible. They are specific about who owns what, what good looks like, when something needs to be raised rather than resolved independently, and what the standard is for a finished piece of work. That kind of clarity is not micromanagement. It is respect for people's time.

You have built genuine capability and it is not being recognised at the level it deserves. You are showing up well in most situations but something is inconsistent, and you cannot quite put your finger on what. You are capable of more and you sense it, but without the language or the framework to articulate it, the gap stays where it is.