Those explanations keep people focused on adjusting themselves rather than examining the fit between themselves and the role. That is a meaningful difference. You may be in the right field and the wrong environment. You may have the right level of responsibility but the wrong mix of tasks. You may be entirely capable of doing the work, yet still spending most of your day operating against your natural strengths.

Some of the advice out there does not help. "Follow your passion" is not a strategy. A pros and cons list will not get you far either, because it lets you weigh surface factors against each other without ever asking what is actually driving the decision underneath. You end up with a tidy grid that confirms whatever you were already leaning towards.